At what point do people stop having sex, and for what reasons?!
One basic concept of it all-pleasure, yeah sure we all get that. But at what point in our lives does it become something else to us. A chore, a moment of weakness? Is it age that affects this or the attitudes towards the events we occur which change our treatment towards it?
Most assume those older than self do not partake, but is that because the idea seems so, lets just say, uncomfortable to us, that we refuse to even believe it exists.
A glance, a off hand comment, a suggestion. How are we to take any as innocence or as a line with ideas behind it? Once a warning towards the such is made, how is one able to give the benefit of the doubt? Are we always meant to keep our guards up, or should they remain low to accept the attention as a compliment or as a warning to perhaps what may be deemed as inappropriate behaviour.
I suppose what really affects it all is those who become involved. If the attention from one becomes of your interest, of course there is always innocence on your behalf to assume 'why not, it is legitimate behaviour from me, why not them'-you wouldn't assume nonetheless. Though on recent experience, how are you able to tell if something different is going on behind the face value?
How much so should we really keep our guards up? What legitimises the behaviour of others, if they feel no guilt towards it too?
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